Everyone
wants to be perceived right, we all want to seen by others in a particular way
or want people to think of us in a particular manner which might not be a bad
idea. No matter what you think, you have a reputation.
As good as
reputation might seem, you will find that you really do not have power or
control over your reputation. Many times we get frustrated trying to build up
reputations, by doing so much to impress people, but in the end we get
frustrated in our quest. The acts of makeup and make belief many times leave
people confused about our true identity as leaders and often make people lose
interest and confidence in our leadership.
Reputation
is good no doubt but paying excessive attention to reputation is a limitation
on your leadership. Leaders who pay too
much attention to their reputation, trying to impress people by big words or
vocabularies without critically thinking of how to bring to pass what they say,
always end up in self assassination of character and self destruction. I have
had such leaders and have been privileged as a follower to be under such
leadership in my life and many times it seems like I am dealing with a masquerade
or chameleon whose true identity is unknown and is always changing color at
will.
No matter
how hard you try, pretend or try to impress by your reputation, your character which
is who you truly are will someday be seen. Character is the strength of
leadership, character is the expression of your inner being. Without character
success might be a difficult thing to achieve or maintain. I have discovered in
my work and studies, that good character is the essence of leadership.
Nothing in
life could be more frustrating than trying to keep up a reputation that is
directly opposite of your character. Reputation might achieve some amount of
success, but character is what sustains it. No matter what you get by
reputation, you can easily lose for lack of character.
True
leadership is, knowing that you could never fool all the people all the time.
Being in position of leadership requires character. Followers learn to trust
leaders whose words corresponds with their character.
One thing
most leaders forget is that, leadership is all about trust, betraying the trust
of your followers is the worst thing one could ever do. As a leader, leading by
example should be your priority, in your home, job or business. Say what you
mean, mean what you say and do it exactly when and how you said you will do it,
is integrity.
Reputation
may win sometimes but character wins all the time. Therefore, if you desire
true success and accomplishment as a leader pay attention to your character. As
a growing child my mother used to say that “if two or three people are
complaining about a particular attitude of yours, don’t try to proof them
wrong, look in the mirror and change your attitude.” When you pay attention to
your character you will have less secrets and explanations to people about what
yourself.
Nothing
distinguishes you more than good character worthy of emulation. This is the
foundation of leadership, the kind of leadership we have been looking for in
Africa and the world at large. Like Martin Luther King Jr. I will say “I have a
dream,” that someday Africa will be able to boast of leaders with character
worthy of emulation. I dream of leaders who will stand for the truth and do
what is right no matter the opposition, leaders willing to sacrifice their
comfort for their followers. Men who will not only make laws but obey the laws
they have made.
I dream of a better definition of leadership in Africa, where
men and women of character will serve fearlessly and selflessly without
bothering about their reputation but stand on the path of justice and make the
right decisions that many generations to come will be proud of now.
Now is the
time we have been waiting for, today is all we have to make a difference that history
will always remember. Nobody will but you and I, we can change the world, yes
we can make it right because we believe in change.
Join me
today stand for what is right, do what is right make a decision to pay more
attention to your character rather than worry about your reputation. This is
not about trying hard to please people, which is what reputation is all about
which mostly end in frustration and disgrace. Character is about building the
right foundation, doing the right thing, being yourself and standing for what
is right always.
Ezekiel Moses is a, Writer, Consultant, a
Creative Artist and Broadcaster. He is a sought after motivational speaker who
impacted many people young and old over the years. He is a Branding, Marketing
and Adverts specialist and Best Seller Author. Tell: 231 7755 97336, www.changeentertainments.blogspot.com
E-mail: iamezekielmosesdgr8@gmail.com This article is written by EZEKIEL MOSES and published in The New Dawn News Paper, Monrovia Liberia.
